How To Tell If A Girl Really Likes You
Dating is hard. It’s perhaps one of the most difficult things human beings do on a regular basis. It involves being open and vulnerable with someone, even though they may hurt you. Yet, you’ll have to continue being vulnerable with them, or the relationship stops working. Knowing what she is really saying by reading her body language is key to a successful date.
Even getting into a relationship is hard. The idea of approaching someone, asking them out, it’s a thing many people have a very difficult time with. It’s no wonder, when you take into account how our culture treats the idea of dating. Instead of teaching people that communication and trust are the keys to relationships, they put the idea out there that there’s some unknowable thing that guides the whole situation. They imply, or outright state, that the ‘right one’ will simply know how to act and react and that when you finally get together things will be perfect.
Quite frankly, that’s completely untrue. You can not rely on the idea that someone will ‘just know’ how to be in a relationship. Case in point, you looked up an article about how to find out if a girl truly likes you. You wouldn’t have done that if you had some way to simply know if they liked you or not. Instead, you’re looking for signs, signals and other subtle tips that will help you figure it out without actually asking about it.
Accept that the real truth is asking if someone truly likes you. Be upfront and have courage. It will save you so much time in the long run. Certainly, they may be dropping subtle hints to let you know. There may be subtle moments of trying to look cute, of meeting your gaze and then looking away, or a number of other tips she’s learned which mean ‘you like this person’. But the problem is that different people have learned different things. Some people have learned that subtly touching someone on the hand or shoulder means you like them, while other people have learned that you never, ever touch another person without their consent.
As such, it’s almost impossible to find a universal sign that a girl truly likes you. If you don’t want to ask them directly, you have to learn enough about them to know what their subtle cues and signals are. But if you’re going to put that much work into it, it’s much easier to simply ask if they’d like to go out on a date.