Getting Used To Your New Love Partner’s Habits
Getting a new love partner is an exciting time. However, after you get to know one another those quirky little things you used to adore can sometimes become annoying. How do you get used to your new love partners habits? These tips will help you to adjust.
First, think about what attracted you to the person in the first place. Some of those same things that attracted you are the very things that are now annoying you. Take your mind back to the attraction of your new love and try to keep things in perspective.
Remember, your new love partner may be struggling with some of your habits too. Keep this in mind when you’re agonising about his or her habits as well.
Take a moment and remember that everyone is different. If it’s the cap on the toothpaste (a common complaint) can you learn to live with it being off of the toothpaste? Is it easier to simply put it back on than to complain about it? Is it really worth complaining about? Twenty years from now will it really matter?
Find ways to gently change the habits that annoy you. You don’t have to say a word to get him or her to put the cap back on the toothpaste if you simply buy the type of toothpaste that uses the plunge mechanism. This is a sneaky way to stop an annoyance, but it works every time because all you did was change brands.
There are many clever ways to get used to your new love’s habits and they don’t have to involve confrontation. By simply thinking ahead you can find a way to deal with their habits and if need be, you can find a way to change a few of yours that may be annoying your new love as well.
Ask yourself every time that your new love does something out of habit that annoys you if it will really matter twenty years from now. Chances are it won’t matter at all. So don’t stress over it. Let your new love be themselves, they’ll be a lot happier, and so will you for allowing them to be themselves.
Remember, everyone has habits, some are good and some are bad. Learning to live with other people and their habits is always a challenge but if you really love someone, it’s well worth the effort.